Dating a sex offender
Of course I knew about the previous offence and was a little shock but I took it really well.
He has been in nearly two months and I'm worried I'm beginning to feel differently about him.
So I asked him about it and completely came clean about the whole thing and promised me that he was going to tell me before we went on a date or anything anyway because he's legally obligated to tell his probation officer everything he does and would have to inform me of his transgressions before dating me.
We talked about it a couple of times and told me about how he's been to counselling for two years and is a completely different person now and completely and utterly regrets downloading them because they've ruined his life and is constantly trying to make up for it everyday.
While it was consenting, he was convicted and is now a felon.
And strangely I became used to that, I unknowingly fell in love with that, thinking I was accepting him for who he is. His family have been really good to me, helping me out, but I live near Brighton and there North of London.
But before we began dating he was fired from the garden centre because his neighbours had complained that he was working in a child friendly atmosphere.
Thus the rumor mill at work started and some one googled him to find that he had been charged for having two pornographic videos of children and a couple of photos on his laptop two and a half years ago.
When I confronted him about the record I found online, he owned up to it immediately; however, he says he did not commit the molestation.
He had a drug/alcohol problem until he was about 24.