Dating two people
"I learned a lot while in Ireland (and France, Belgium) about romance and relationships, and you can read all about my adventures elsewhere (see: What Does Shifting Mean in Irish Slang, and Dating in Ireland).
I've been a semi-fluent French speaker since my youth, yet trying to share what I did perplexed most French, Belgian and Swiss folks I encountered. My male friends scoffed, my female friends swooned.
I’ll know when my heart tells me which one of these guys is the right one.
One may have the best butt; the other may have an impressive beard. When you’re seeing two guys at the same time, they’re rarely similar.
You feel like Mandy Moore’s character in “Because I Said So”: hopelessly pulled between the gorgeous musician and the stable, sexy millionaire. What if you THINK one of the guys is right for you — but he’s really not? Your indecision is a cruel trick played by the universe.
You know you should, but you just can’t bring yourself to commit. When two guys are vying for your love, you may feel like the ultimate catch, but you’ll end up the ultimate loser.