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I have never been on more than three dates with anyone but my boyfriend, and I never figured out how to get in on the booty-call game.
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ziz Ansari, known to many as the dapper Tom Haverford on "Parks and Recreation," and known to still more as a brilliant, subversive comedian, wants you to find love. (Don’t worry about him, he’s already found it and it sounds pretty great.) His new book, , features a zany cover and the opening line “Oh shit!
”, but let there be no confusion: This is not exactly a humor book.
But developing this confidence requires deep internal work, not just a bunch of rehearsed lines and gimmicks.
compiles numerous anecdotes from his stand-up, their focus groups, and a subreddit they set up, as well as studies and conversations with prominent psychologists and relationship experts.It starts with your mindset, with your habits, and with your self image.Developing this confidence is not an easy journey or even a simple one, but it will be worth it.2.With that in mind, my skeptical, dating-averse brain began automatically scanning the book for awful advice.I’m hardly qualified to do so, considering the following: I am in a relationship that predated the rise of Tinder; I used Ok Cupid for roughly a week at a time at six-month intervals during my single years; I once told three guys I was shutting down my Ok Cupid account in large part because I couldn’t think of a more tactful way to avoid seeing them again (they were so nice! And then I actually shut down my Ok Cupid account so I wouldn’t be a liar.